Emirati Narges Ali Al Balushi – a 38 -year -old incubator mother – gave her life to her embraced daughter (Aisha). Her comfort, and she did her life in order to raise her and teach her.
The daughter (Aisha) received a distinguished position among her big family, and her father loved her to the point that after his separation from her mother, he always asked about her, and spent the time of the weekly holiday with her, and (Aisha) is close to her grandfather, who is always keen to ask her and bring her closer to his grandchildren, and he was Everyone is keen not to notify her as embraced.
On the other hand, (Aisha) promises her father and mother with righteousness and charity, saying: “When I am older, I will return them to them all the happy days that he gave me, and I will study medicine to treat my father from (diabetes).”
Narges Ali Al -Balushi tells her inspiring human story, saying: “My story that reflects the power of love that exceeds all limits, started seven years ago, when I decided to embrace (Aisha), and she was two months old, and when I saw her for the first time I felt from my heart that I gave birth to it, and it was a feeling. It is described, and from that moment I could not abandon it. ”
She added: “Although officials in the Community Development Authority in Dubai informed me that the completion of embrace procedures may take time, I did not leave the place until they promised me to end the matter urgently, and indeed within two weeks (Aisha) was with me.”
She pointed out that the procedures included psychological examinations, to ensure that the mother and father are incubating any psychological diseases that may affect the child, in addition to testing their patience and their ability to endure.
She explained that she did not suffer from sterile problems or an inability to have children, but rather in good health that enables her to have biological children, but she chose to embrace a child of her will, persuaded her husband, and submitted an embracing request.
And I recalled the first moments in which she watched her embraced daughter, saying: “From the first moment she saw her, I realized that I was her mother, and I did not possess myself from crying, and I felt that the feeling of motherhood began to flow inside me naturally, and embraced her with love and tenderness.”
And she continued: “The experience of embrace (Aisha) filled my life with joy, and the child became part of my life that cannot be dispensed with.”
“Aisha came to me with clothes written on it (I love you my mother) in English, as if it was a message that was able to me.”
She said, “I have not forgotten the moment when (Aisha) was received from the child official in the family village in Dubai, who was called (Baba Nasser), and he told me words that I will never forget: (Keep it, it is the key to heaven), and from that moment until now and me I do all my days to raise and teach them at the highest level, to be a reason for entering Paradise. And all this gave me, during the first days of hosting (Aisha), a force that is indescribable to confront anything that might oppose her presence with me. ”
And those days remembered, saying: “I did not sleep at night for fear of her, and she was very small, and I was examining her breath throughout her sleep for fear that any harm would be afflicted, and a desire to deal with her as a daughter in every sense of the word, and I took treatment courses to be able to breastfeed, Mothers in my family shared my breastfeeding, until my daughter and daughter became breastfeeding. ”
And about her parents’ reactions to the incubation decision, Al -Balushi says: “(Aisha) was a livelihood and a blessing for the family. Tools for school or anything else, and my family did not issue any reaction that he might feel that she is an embraced child, but rather an authentic individual in the family. ”
She indicated that she joined the “WhatsApp” group that gathered incubator mothers, provided support for each other, and exchanged their experiences, so the group was a great help for her, as they taught her how to tell (Aisha) as a hugging girl, so she started with her in a simple way, using stories about the animals that adopt Young people from different factions, to pave the idea in her mind naturally, and began to study by communicating the concept of embrace to her, until she ultimately told her that she was embraced, so Aisha’s response was natural and calm, as if she had known that in advance.
(Narges) recalled its memories of the first school day for (Aisha), saying: “It was an exceptional day, as it was the first experience of separation from (Aisha), and it was funny that I kept calling the school administration to inquire about her condition, did I eat? Did you drink? Whenever I remembered that now, I laugh at my fears that I was expressing in a lot of contact, until I used to. ”
On the exposure of (Aisha) to bullying due to the difference in her form from her family, her mother said: “The children (Aisha) tells that she does not resemble her parents, and it looks different from them, but her response is always (God has created me beautiful)”, stressing that she worked to support her child psychologically , To give her confidence in the face of bioppers.
She said: “My daughter is constantly telling me about innocent phrases, such as (I know that you did not give birth to me, and that I came from the womb of another woman, but I love you, as your heart is the one who gave birth to me),” noting that she tells her colleagues that she is embracing, and that she is distinguished by a great mother and father.
She stated that she had separated a while ago from the father of (Aisha) in the incubation, which is considered the father of the father for her, so it is still that she will give her everything she needs, and he meets her all her requirements so that she does not lack anything, as she spends with him the weekend, and is very happy to go to him, a sign Until her aunt is one of her mothers who breastfed her while she is young, and she has five children, all of whom love her, and they consider her part of them, in addition to her grandmother who loves her a lot.
For her part, (Aisha) expressed innocent words about her ambitions, saying: “I will study medicine to be able to provide the treatment that treats my father and relaxes him from his tiredness, because he is sick with high blood sugar, and when greater, I will return to my father and my mother all the happy days that he gave me.”
Narges Al -Balushi:
. I could have biological children, but I chose to embrace a child with my will, and I persuaded my husband, and the procedures were easy by “community development” in Dubai.
The embraced child Aisha:
. When I am older, I will return to my father and my mother all the happy days that he gave me, and I will study medicine to treat my father from “diabetes”.
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