Planning for marriage

The family relations consultant, Khalifa Al -Mahrazi, shows that “every young man and a girl of positive planning for marriage, and proper thinking of the next life,” indicating that the choice “If it is not successful from the beginning, it will leave the fatal negative effects that leave deep wounds in yourself, then every wrong choice causes some pain And psychological anxiety, “adding that” the possibility of escalating the dispute between the spouses may end in divorce. ”

He points out that «the choice in the end remains the responsibility of the man in the first place, and from there comes the conviction of the other party who draws the path of his marital life with you, because you will live together, and bear the consequences of marital life with its sweet and bitter life, despite the presence of other parties that share with you in this life, However, the decision of others is not matched by its weight and importance, the desire of both parties to link to the other. Al -Mahrazi explains that there are many marital problems that may occur among newlyweds, in addition to the high divorce rates, which are considered “natural secretions for many mistakes that these young people did not notice at the beginning of marriage, the most prominent of which is the wrong choice of the partner”, indicating that the majority of cases Divorce among young people is caused by the failure to take the opinion of the two parties in the marriage, or because of leaving the absolute choice of children, “both are considered a fatal mistake by parents who believe that this is in the interest of their children, and with the pretext that the children are unable to choose a proper choice, without taking into account the psychological and social needs The emotional of the children, for the girl or the young man, without knowing that they are committing a fatal sin in exposing their children to a life they do not want for themselves.

Al -Mahrazi is surprised by the neglected families ’view of the issue of choosing the wife, considering that it is going to go“ where they prepare for the choice of the bride after the son obtained the job and ends from university education, as if he was ready to enter with confidence in this life, and he has not made his way yet, and he did not test the real life And it was not clear to him the skills and ingredients of the vision, mature perception and conscious assimilation of the meaning of marital life and its responsibilities, “explaining that” one has to look at the one who preceded it in marriage, and whoever sees it appropriate to benefit from the experience and its obstacles. “The choice is caused by a family and lineage between the two parties over the days.”